Musings/Opinionated Articles · Poetry

Crushes

Oh man, she is damn hot!
“I’m in love“”

I’m just wondering how many times we come across this line, either by our close buddies or by ourselves.

At an ice cream parlour, at a beach, in a MALL, in our neighbour hood, in our college etc wherever, whenever and yes whomsoever.

They are just like magnets, which have been left wandering in the sea of nails of various shapes, sizes and materials.

And then I think it’s JUST OUR NATURE TO REACT.

Different magnets have different effects on us. Some (SEXY) make us desperately ferromagnetic, some horny ferrimagnetic, some not-interested paramagnetic and a few makes us irritated diamagnetic.

They have two poles, LOVE (north) and LUST(south), and it’s often the case that we don’t know which pole is ATTRACTING US TOWARDS IT.
Which leads to the formation of a CRUSH (which most of the time crashes).

Whenever we get attracted, we termed it as a crush. We know it’s lust in the case of celebrities but get confused otherwise.

CONFUSION!!

Yeah, hell of a confusion. Keeping ourself engaged in her thoughts, dreaming of being with her, holding hands, kissing her etc, and in a way get ourselves so attached that even a little separation would hurt like someone has poked our heart.

And we keep asking what is it?
And our fucking mind always says, Man, you are in love.

But when that confusion breaks, either “oh hell, it was nothing more than infatuation,” or “not again, Why I always fall for the wrong girl” or in most cases “oh god take me away, my life is over”.

Either you feel free, depressed or it doesn’t matter at all!

But the thing is, it does matter!!!!!!

Whatever it is, it leaves an effect on you, wheather you admit it or not. And if by chance (once in a blue moon) it was love and just it in its purest form then ahm.

I think the effect is indelible.

But it doesn’t mean, to stop living or I should rather phrase it as “don’t stop loving”.

Because as much as oxygen is required to live literally,
Love is required to live beautifully.

You can’t live your whole life crying over someone, and also not by keep critisizing them. As sometimes even two very good people coudn’t go well together, so what’s the point of blaming the counterpart if it didn’t work out.

I think god has made our hearts like puzzle pieces, so even if the other piece is perfect, it’s not necessary that it would fill your void or complement with you to form the complete picture.

So if it’s anyhting but love (and you know it) and got crashed, don’t get dishearted.

It has happend to teach you somthing or the other or may be because to “err is to human” ( as we have a tendency towards south pole too;)

And if its true one,den just do your bit and let her go, as
love is not a cage where you trap someone, but it’s the belief that even when the whole sky is available to it, it wont go away.

SO KEEP LOVE INSIDE YOU ALIVE,WHO KNOWS IF YOUR BIRD IS JUST ROUND THE CORNER…………🙂

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