Musings/Opinionated Articles · Poetry

Crushes

oh!! man she is damn hot!!
“”am in love“”,”” am smitten””

i m just wondering how many times we come across this line ,either by our close buddies or by ourselfs.
in the ice cream parlour,at the beach,in a MALL ,in our neighbour hood,in our college etc etc etc(mind it ,i m not counting the glamour world),wherever ,whenever and (believe me on this) whomsoever.

they are just like a magnet ,which have been left wandering in midst of thousands of nails of various shapes,sizes and materials.and then i think its JUST OUR NATURE TO REACT.
Different magnets have diffrent effects on us,some(SEXY) make us desperately ferromagnetic,some horny ferrimagnetics,some not interested paramagnetic and a few makes us irritated diamagnetics…..

they have two poles,LOVE(north) and LUST(south),,and its often the case that we dont know which pole is ATTRACTING US TOWARDS IT.
which leads to CRUSH……….(which most of the time crashes)…

whenevr we gets attracted ,we termed it as a crush, its just we know its lust in the case of celebrities but gets confused otherwise.

CONFUSION!!
ya hell of a confusion.Keeping ourself engaged in her thoughts,dreaming of being with her,holding hands,kissing her etc etc etc,and in a way get ourself so attached that even a little separation would hurt lik someone is poking our heart.
and keep asking ourself what is it????
and our fucking mind always says,,,,,man u r in love……..

but when that confusion breaks,,,either “”oh hell it was nothing more than affectuation,”” or “”not again,,why i always fall for the wrong girl””or in most cases “oh god take me away,,my life is over”.either u feel free ,depressed or it doesnt matter at all>!!

but the thing is
it does matter!!!!!!

whatever it was,it leaves an effect on you,wheather you admit it or not.and if by chance(once in a blue moon nowadays) it was love and just it in its purest form then ahm…. i thnk the effect is indelible.

but it doesnt mean,to stop living or i should rather phrase it as “dont stop loving”.

because as much as oxygen is required to live literally,
love is required to live beautifully.

you cant live your whole life crying over someone,and also not by keep critisizing them.as sometimes even 2 very good people coudnt go well together,

so whats the point of blaming the counterpart if it didnt work out.

i think god has made our hearts like puzzle pieces,so even if the other piece is perfect,its not necessary that it would fill your void or complement with you to form the complete picture.

so if its anyhting but love( and u know it) and got crashed, dont get dis hearted.
it has happend to teach you somthing or the other or may be because to “err is to human” ( as we have a tendency towards south pole too;) )
and if its true one,den just do your bit and let her go,as
love is not a cage where u trap someone,but its the belief that even when the whole sky is available to it,it wont go away……………………

SO KEEP LOVE INSIDE YOU ALIVE,WHO KNOWS IF YOUR BIRD IS JUST ROUND THE CORNER…………🙂

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